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When you use separation to focus on internal build-up of yourself and internal wins, magic happens

Today's goods come much later than usual as I had a hectic day getting family stuff sorted that was time sensitive for our trip to Europe in October. Literally everything went wrong that could go wrong lol Plus I dislike administration stuff and that was the tune of the day....

An example of an external win that happened purely because of internal wins from the weeks prior

I have been telling you the last couple days how challenging the past few weeks have been and how my wife and I came out successful on the other side. I also shared some things that I used from TBH to get there. My wife sent me this the other...

Thoughts on Getting Your Wife to Love You Again

I am 35 years old and not really a "doctor" going person. Might be old school thinking but if you want to find a problem and you really look for it…you will. However, my wife (who is 4 years older and wiser than me) really wanted me to do a...

Winning Your Wife's Love Back by Focusing on Internal Wins

Last night's Monday Implementation call was awesome. Lots of internal wins shared (wins you control and based on your actions) which led to external wins (wins you don't control and based on other's actions/words). Such wins have a huge potential to lead to gaining respect and love from one's spouse....

Husbands Had Their Wife Drop the Affair and Come Back through TBH

I want to close the week powerfully value and content wise for you. So here it is: Her first public Facebook photo of us in two years. She also told me she loved me today. So many wins. A little overwhelmed and scared I may screw it up. I will...

Take Control of Things You Can Leading to Winning Your Wife Back

I swear I got 50 million reasons to be bummed out today as life is truly testing me! Yet, I am not. Why is that? Control. I control what I can and don't what I cannot. What that does is it eliminates the unnecessary stress and anger from my life...

Made Love 8 Times in the Three Days and Our Relationship Is Flourishing

Let me share our latest success story of a TBH member who really wanted to cut corners because he was frustrated and desperate. Didn't work so well for him until he got with the program, stopped skipping steps and followed the science we gave him… Look what that did for...

Here's a Recent Message from a Husband Who Restored His Marriage In a Few Months

Good Morning Guys. I hope you both are well on this beautiful morning. The Sun is shining bright here in upstate NY and I can't wait to see what this day has to offer. I could write a book right now on my experiences the last three months, but I...

Wife puts separation on hold...in just 6 weeks

Where are you with anger and frustration? Is it controlling you? Are you a victim of it? Do you have any excuses for it? Please, please, pretty please…get the tools to make sure you stay in control and solid. Anger damages not only your marriage but the role model image...

By Learning to Take Responsibility for Your Side, the Probability of Your Wife or Ex-Wife Following

Anytime you achieved something great… something that took your life to the next level… It always felt uncomfortable right before. Very uncomfortable. You were nervous. Unsure. Doubting even. All natural feelings and state of mind. Getting your driver license. First exam in high school or university. First job interview. Your...